This part might come sooner for you if you have children of any age, for me I didn't so it was not something I thought about until there was a little clearing of the fog. Five months after James died, I found myself thinking about something I hadn't had to face myself: what would this have looked like if there had been a child in the house? Since even in my work I don't work with children this sent me on a search and find mission and down a rabbit hole a little bit. It line